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Reflection Friday: Hack Your Phone To Happiness

So I thought about this post on my walk this morning. Something that I’ve built into my daily routine (More on that coming soon) besides exercise, is BREATHING SPACE! Because that’s when the best ideas come right!?

Well this wasn’t entirely my own idea and it’s not a completely new concept – but having read this article, it highlighted to me that we totally control our “happiness feed”! What messages / distractions are you allowing into your life? So not only is it through things like your Facebook feed, but think about your phone!

Increasingly my phone was just sucking me down a black hole! (Curiosity killed the cat, right!?)No wonder Harry’s frustrating little habit of “Mum, mum, mum, muuuum” was born! Fighting for my attention right!? SO I’ve hacked my phone to optimise my happiness and to prevent that cloudy brain!

Here’s How:

Take Off: 

  • I took e-mail off my phone ( E-mails are to be attended to during work hours only – plus I recently went on an “Unsubscribing purge” as a little e-mail declutter bonus)
  • I took twitter Off My Phone
  • I’ve kept Instagram as I find Instagram incredibly inspiring (& useful for my work) if you’re following the right people. BUT I switched the instagram notifications off. 
  • I took Facebook Off My Phone

SO now my phone works as a phone! Just calls or messages from people in my personal space that bring me joy, no pings or distracting alerts.

Put On:

  • Nike Running App: I think the right apps can be incredibly powerful. Now I’m not saying you need to start training for the next 2 Oceans with The Nike App. And you don’t need to instagram a sweaty, kettle bell selfie to make yourself feel like you’ve ticked that box, or don’t let those get you down either. (Again it’s about creating the right feed!) Just move! I love the Nike Running App for walking, as it tells me how far I’ve walked, at what pace – and it motivates me to beat my previous pace / allows me to measure distances – so now I know if I walk to the end of the pier and back I’ve done 8km etc.. It’s just a nice little motivation tool!
  • Spotify: Well any music app you can access and afford really. Music has that incredible power to change and uplift ones mood, make one run/walk faster, inspire and motivate! Just this morning I caught myself smiling – ah, when last did I just smile by myself, to myself – happy in a moment of “hey, this is such a happy tune, the sun is out and life is good!”
  • Podcasts: I tend to listen to podcasts on my morning walks or if we’re traveling in the car. Podcasts are an easy way to learn something new, get inspired and kill time on those longer journeys! One of my first & favourite podcasts was Beyond The To Do List with Brooke McAlry: On simplicity, rhythms and tilting instead of balancing.
  • Instagram: Again, it’s about who you follow. Unfollow everyone that is not adding value to your life, emotions or precious time! I find the write Instagram Feed can be incredibly inspiring and aspirational – really getting those creative juices flowing. I see it as a stream of ideas and dreams. It’s one to be careful with in terms of boundaries and being intentional with your time though.
  • Calm / Omvana or any type of meditation app. I find using one of these apps is a game changer in the way I start my day. While my husband has a little Harry time before work, I have 20 minutes of quiet – just learning to quiet the mind.(I have a racing mid of “What If’s?” and “To-do’s!”) I always end off with a few moments of thanks & gratitude. It’s a sure way to enter the day feeling positive, calm and like, “I’ve got this!”, before the wave off work, toddler and new challenges say good morning!

So now I’ve hacked my phone to work for me instead of against me! We’re next toying with the idea of carrying camera’s again instead of using our phones . . . lets see!

I’d love to hear what apps you use to make your life more effective!?

Happy 1st Of April and have a HAPPY WEEKEND X

P.S. Here’s the song that made me smile.

Meditation – a big buzzword – but how to choose?

If you think meditation is for your hippy friends with pink crystals in their bathrooms and too much time on their hands, think again! New studies are now showing the incredible benefits from just a few minutes of meditation a day. I started yesterday with a super simple technique & app called omvana. Such a great way to start the day. So I was very excited when this article came to me!

Arianna Huffinton, founder of the Huffington Post, challenges us in the West to review our measurement of success in her book, Thrive.  This is after she collapses from exhaustion and lack of sleep.( You can find her podcast here)

Is it really just money and power we need, or is there something more than what we settle for?  We need a Third Metric, she says, in order to live the lives we truly want and deserve.

This third measure of success goes way beyond money and power – they are:

  • Well-Being – taking good care of your physical health.
  • Wonder – experiencing and appreciating the joy that the world around you offers, even during our normal daily activities.
  • Wisdom – disconnecting from our devices to find the answers, but tapping into the knowledge that lies within.
  • Giving – the willingness to give, prompted by our empathy and compassion.

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Meditation could help build all four pillars. Perhaps this is why so many celebrities have recently described meditation as life changing.

But is one form of meditation the same as the next?  Not really.  It has to be said that all forms of meditation are beneficial, but some techniques are learnt from a book, and some taught by a teacher.  Some techniques require hours at end, and some a few minutes every day.  Some techniques take years to master, and some are mastered right from the get go.  The different techniques even have unique effects on the brain.

In Dr. Norman Rosenthal’s book, Transcendence, meditation experts Dr. Fred Travis, internationally renowned neuroscientist and Dr. Jonathan Shear, Professor of philosophy, categorised the different meditation techniques into 3 overall categories – focused attention, open monitoring and automatic self transcending.

  •  Focused Attention styles of meditation are meditation techniques that focus on something in particular, like an image or an emotion, and divert the attention back to the focus when thoughts intrude.
  • Open Monitoring techniques, which includes Buddhist-type mindfulness meditation, teaches the meditator to observe the breath or whatever thoughts and feelings may enter the mind, without reacting to them.  This makes the meditator more aware of internal patterns.
  • Automatic Self Transcending, represented by Transcendental Meditation (TM) is a technique where the meditator uses a mantra in a specific manner, which allows the mind to settle into the simplest state of awareness.

Travis and Shear have performed research around the world through EEG measurements on many meditators and explain that each meditation category show different brain patterns during meditation, meaning that each technique has its own unique effect on both the brain and the meditator.

The Focused Attention styles of meditation show increased activity in the areas of the brain that regulates emotion.  Long-time meditators showed more prominent activity than novice meditators.

The Open Monitoring styles of meditation show an increased activity in the areas that regulate emotions, as well as the area that assists with decision-making and other executive functions.

During Transcendental Meditation, in the Automatic Self Transcending category, increased activity over a wider spread area throughout the brain was noted. During testing, brainwaves also tend to fall into phase, meaning that they become more orderly, over larger areas of the frontal regions of the brain. This is also known as brain coherence. TM meditators continued showing this coherence even in a non-meditative state, after as little as two months of regular practice.

The only record we could find of a focussed attention style meditator showing the same brain coherence as that of a TM meditator was during the EEG scan of a Buddhist monk, who had been practicing meditation for 40 years

This illustrates just how effortless and easy to learn the TM technique is.  In fact, several Buddhist communities in Thailand include Transcendental Meditation in their spiritual practices due to the simplicity of the technique and the results achieved.

Should you wish to find out more about learning the Transcendental Meditation technique, contact the Houghton office on  / http://www.tminjoburg.co.za /  . They will put you in touch with your nearest centre.  It will be a good call, and if some of your new years resolutions have already fallen off the list, this would be a good one to add.

Article by Marisa Ravenscroft .za