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Reflection Friday: Hack Your Phone To Happiness

So I thought about this post on my walk this morning. Something that I’ve built into my daily routine (More on that coming soon) besides exercise, is BREATHING SPACE! Because that’s when the best ideas come right!?

Well this wasn’t entirely my own idea and it’s not a completely new concept – but having read this article, it highlighted to me that we totally control our “happiness feed”! What messages / distractions are you allowing into your life? So not only is it through things like your Facebook feed, but think about your phone!

Increasingly my phone was just sucking me down a black hole! (Curiosity killed the cat, right!?)No wonder Harry’s frustrating little habit of “Mum, mum, mum, muuuum” was born! Fighting for my attention right!? SO I’ve hacked my phone to optimise my happiness and to prevent that cloudy brain!

Here’s How:

Take Off: 

  • I took e-mail off my phone ( E-mails are to be attended to during work hours only – plus I recently went on an “Unsubscribing purge” as a little e-mail declutter bonus)
  • I took twitter Off My Phone
  • I’ve kept Instagram as I find Instagram incredibly inspiring (& useful for my work) if you’re following the right people. BUT I switched the instagram notifications off. 
  • I took Facebook Off My Phone

SO now my phone works as a phone! Just calls or messages from people in my personal space that bring me joy, no pings or distracting alerts.

Put On:

  • Nike Running App: I think the right apps can be incredibly powerful. Now I’m not saying you need to start training for the next 2 Oceans with The Nike App. And you don’t need to instagram a sweaty, kettle bell selfie to make yourself feel like you’ve ticked that box, or don’t let those get you down either. (Again it’s about creating the right feed!) Just move! I love the Nike Running App for walking, as it tells me how far I’ve walked, at what pace – and it motivates me to beat my previous pace / allows me to measure distances – so now I know if I walk to the end of the pier and back I’ve done 8km etc.. It’s just a nice little motivation tool!
  • Spotify: Well any music app you can access and afford really. Music has that incredible power to change and uplift ones mood, make one run/walk faster, inspire and motivate! Just this morning I caught myself smiling – ah, when last did I just smile by myself, to myself – happy in a moment of “hey, this is such a happy tune, the sun is out and life is good!”
  • Podcasts: I tend to listen to podcasts on my morning walks or if we’re traveling in the car. Podcasts are an easy way to learn something new, get inspired and kill time on those longer journeys! One of my first & favourite podcasts was Beyond The To Do List with Brooke McAlry: On simplicity, rhythms and tilting instead of balancing.
  • Instagram: Again, it’s about who you follow. Unfollow everyone that is not adding value to your life, emotions or precious time! I find the write Instagram Feed can be incredibly inspiring and aspirational – really getting those creative juices flowing. I see it as a stream of ideas and dreams. It’s one to be careful with in terms of boundaries and being intentional with your time though.
  • Calm / Omvana or any type of meditation app. I find using one of these apps is a game changer in the way I start my day. While my husband has a little Harry time before work, I have 20 minutes of quiet – just learning to quiet the mind.(I have a racing mid of “What If’s?” and “To-do’s!”) I always end off with a few moments of thanks & gratitude. It’s a sure way to enter the day feeling positive, calm and like, “I’ve got this!”, before the wave off work, toddler and new challenges say good morning!

So now I’ve hacked my phone to work for me instead of against me! We’re next toying with the idea of carrying camera’s again instead of using our phones . . . lets see!

I’d love to hear what apps you use to make your life more effective!?

Happy 1st Of April and have a HAPPY WEEKEND X

P.S. Here’s the song that made me smile.

Yoga Workshop With Om Revolution

Come and Join a 3 hour workshop-style Yoga class on Saturday 29 August, where experts submerge you into all 8 limbs of yoga, introducing you to proper Pranayama (breathwork), Vinyasa (active flow of yoga postures), Peak Poses (learn with the help of an expert, how to achieve advanced poses such as headstands, crow variations, eka padakoundinyasana and others) and Meditation / Yoga Nidra (achieving a state of peace and serenity by simply being).

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There will also be pop up shops from The Skinny Juice Company, Yogafunk and Sentiens luxury eco printed yoga mats. Receive discounts to these pop ups on the day, as well as free snacks and refreshments and discounts to our private yoga service.

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Sounds like the perfect day after a long week! For more information & tickets, see here! (Workshop suitable for all levels)

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Open yourself up to 200% of living, because yes, there is more to life!

Something I used to be sceptical about – but am feeling the benefits from – Meditation. Most of us live in a fast-paced, modern world, and we try to negotiate ourselves through excessive noise, to-do lists, distractions and materialism on a daily basis. In contrast to that, there are spiritual seekers and healers seeking a higher purpose in life.  The picture that comes to mind is one of monks living their modest lives in a monastery, but filled with inner peace.

It is nearly impossible to imagine someone who’s excelling at work, driving a fast car, living in a rooftop apartment and holidaying in Saint Tropez, having anything in common with the monks in the monastery.

But why not?  One of the philosophies of those who teach and practice Transcendental Meditation (TM) is that there is 200% of life to be enjoyed.  The first 100% takes care of the inner being.  Once we learn to be quiet and truly listen and connect to our inner selves, there is no reason that the abundance the world has to offer, which represent the second 100%, can’t be enjoyed as well.  It doesn’t have to be an either or situation.

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The regular practice of TM develops a deep connection to the Self. Therefore the Self is fulfilled, and worldly goods don’t need to fill a gap.  This puts one in a position to enjoy the worldly offering with exuberance from within, whether it is a movie, a beautiful pair of shoes, a gorgeous home or a lakeside holiday.

There are some very successful people who certainly seem to enjoy the pleasures the world have to offer while fulfilling their need to go within by practicing TM regularly. 

David Lynch says: “I guess people start meditation for many different reasons, but each person who starts will get the benefit they are looking for, and many other benefits as well. I became interested in mediation because I heard a phrase, ‘True happiness is not out there. True happiness lies within.’ And this phrase had a ring of truth to me, but the phrase doesn’t tell you where the within is, nor how to get there.  One day is hit me that meditation would be the way to go within.”

David Lynch has been practicing the TM technique for over 40 years, and is bringing Transcendental Meditation to anyone wanting to learn through the David Lynch Foundation – www.davidlynchfoundation.org/

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Russell Brand has never shied away from a provocative yet honest comment about pretty much anything.  Impulsiveness and a certain type of flamboyant self-destruction have been his trademark for years.  However, since he learned the TM technique, his life has gained unforeseen stability.  He now begins each day with what himself calls “a shower for the brain.” He says about his daily sessions of meditation and yoga: “It changes consciousness and it’s really good if you’ve had addiction issues.  It’s highly psychological, and very beautiful, and overwhelming, and real, and triply!”

Gisele Bundchen share her formula for blending success with inner peace and harmony with the Brazilian Edition of Glamour Magazine: “I practice Transcendental Meditation twice a day.  Every morning and lunchtime or evening, for about 20 minutes.”

Oprah Winfrey says: “I brought Transcendental Meditation teachers into Harpo Studios to teach me and my team how to meditate. Seven of us lead to 70, led to 270, led to now everyone in the company meditates.  Nine o’clock in the morning, and 4:30 in the afternoon no matter what is going on, we stop and we meditate.  And you can’t imagine what has happened in the company.  People who used to have migraines, don’t.  People are sleeping better.  People have better relationships.  People interact with other people better. It’s been fantastic.  So the one thing I want to continue to do is to center myself everyday, and make that a practice for myself because I am one thousand percent better when I do that, one thousand percent better when I take myself back to something bigger than myself.”

Cameron Diaz said in a recent interview: “I knew there was something there for me, in meditation, but every time I would try to do it, it was like, ‘I just cannot meditate!’  I learned TM, the Transcendental Meditation technique. And it was exactly what I needed! The thing that blew me away the most about it was that it was the easiest thing I’ve ever done – not the easiest meditation, but the easiest thing I have ever learned. And I learn a lot of things, you know; that’s my job!”

To see what other celebrities have to say about Transcendental Meditation, visit http://tmhome.com/experiences/famous-people-who-meditate/

Should you wish to find out more about learning the Transcendental Meditation technique, contact the Houghton office at http://www.tminjoburg.co.za/ or e-mail or call .  They will put you in touch with your nearest centre. 

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Also see – The Busy Girls Guide to meditating. It really needn’t be complicated xx

How are you?

Hey, just checking in. How is 2015 treating you?

A little tip! I’ve been practicing the art of gratitude each morning ( well most mornings, thanks to omvana.com) and this exercise has really been a game changer for me. What 5 things am I grateful for within the last 24 hours / week in my personal life and 5 things in my work life. It’s been proven that practicing the art of gratitude can elevate you mood/happiness for weeks to come and I’ve truly felt the benefits. (It’s super rad with headphones and some sort of chilled, ambient music too)

If all else fails – Listen to Taylor Swift! This puts me in such a happy mood!

Hope you’re having a rad day! AND, thank you for spending some time on kimgray.co.za x

Meditation – a big buzzword – but how to choose?

If you think meditation is for your hippy friends with pink crystals in their bathrooms and too much time on their hands, think again! New studies are now showing the incredible benefits from just a few minutes of meditation a day. I started yesterday with a super simple technique & app called omvana. Such a great way to start the day. So I was very excited when this article came to me!

Arianna Huffinton, founder of the Huffington Post, challenges us in the West to review our measurement of success in her book, Thrive.  This is after she collapses from exhaustion and lack of sleep.( You can find her podcast here)

Is it really just money and power we need, or is there something more than what we settle for?  We need a Third Metric, she says, in order to live the lives we truly want and deserve.

This third measure of success goes way beyond money and power – they are:

  • Well-Being – taking good care of your physical health.
  • Wonder – experiencing and appreciating the joy that the world around you offers, even during our normal daily activities.
  • Wisdom – disconnecting from our devices to find the answers, but tapping into the knowledge that lies within.
  • Giving – the willingness to give, prompted by our empathy and compassion.

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Meditation could help build all four pillars. Perhaps this is why so many celebrities have recently described meditation as life changing.

But is one form of meditation the same as the next?  Not really.  It has to be said that all forms of meditation are beneficial, but some techniques are learnt from a book, and some taught by a teacher.  Some techniques require hours at end, and some a few minutes every day.  Some techniques take years to master, and some are mastered right from the get go.  The different techniques even have unique effects on the brain.

In Dr. Norman Rosenthal’s book, Transcendence, meditation experts Dr. Fred Travis, internationally renowned neuroscientist and Dr. Jonathan Shear, Professor of philosophy, categorised the different meditation techniques into 3 overall categories – focused attention, open monitoring and automatic self transcending.

  •  Focused Attention styles of meditation are meditation techniques that focus on something in particular, like an image or an emotion, and divert the attention back to the focus when thoughts intrude.
  • Open Monitoring techniques, which includes Buddhist-type mindfulness meditation, teaches the meditator to observe the breath or whatever thoughts and feelings may enter the mind, without reacting to them.  This makes the meditator more aware of internal patterns.
  • Automatic Self Transcending, represented by Transcendental Meditation (TM) is a technique where the meditator uses a mantra in a specific manner, which allows the mind to settle into the simplest state of awareness.

Travis and Shear have performed research around the world through EEG measurements on many meditators and explain that each meditation category show different brain patterns during meditation, meaning that each technique has its own unique effect on both the brain and the meditator.

The Focused Attention styles of meditation show increased activity in the areas of the brain that regulates emotion.  Long-time meditators showed more prominent activity than novice meditators.

The Open Monitoring styles of meditation show an increased activity in the areas that regulate emotions, as well as the area that assists with decision-making and other executive functions.

During Transcendental Meditation, in the Automatic Self Transcending category, increased activity over a wider spread area throughout the brain was noted. During testing, brainwaves also tend to fall into phase, meaning that they become more orderly, over larger areas of the frontal regions of the brain. This is also known as brain coherence. TM meditators continued showing this coherence even in a non-meditative state, after as little as two months of regular practice.

The only record we could find of a focussed attention style meditator showing the same brain coherence as that of a TM meditator was during the EEG scan of a Buddhist monk, who had been practicing meditation for 40 years

This illustrates just how effortless and easy to learn the TM technique is.  In fact, several Buddhist communities in Thailand include Transcendental Meditation in their spiritual practices due to the simplicity of the technique and the results achieved.

Should you wish to find out more about learning the Transcendental Meditation technique, contact the Houghton office on  / http://www.tminjoburg.co.za /  . They will put you in touch with your nearest centre.  It will be a good call, and if some of your new years resolutions have already fallen off the list, this would be a good one to add.

Article by Marisa Ravenscroft .za